This is the biggest secret of her life because she has been lying to her husband about their daughter.
Anonymous Relationship Confession: 'I've been lying to my husband about our daughter and it's all about to come out'.
''I was vulnerable and ended up having sex with one of my coworkers. We used a condom but it broke and I decided to buy a morning after pill. I felt really guilty and to this day, I still hate myself for it but I decided not to tell my husband because I didn't want to ruin our relationship.
It was easy to carry on lying because shortly after his job announced that they were moving him to another city so I knew I wasn't going to be seeing my coworker much anymore. But then I found out I was pregnant.
At first I thought it was my husband's so I went on and told him and we celebrated. Even though in the back of my head, I knew it wasn't his.
When I gave birth, my daughter came out very light. Much lighter than how a baby with two black parents would come out but my husband simply thought she was going to darken up as she grew (our niece came out very light too and eventually her melanin came in) and I went with it even though I was really scared that he would have realized something was up but now its been 6 months and my daughter's complexion is still brighter than both of ours and her eye have turned green and now he's flipping out and acting weird with me and now this morning, he's demanded a DNA test.
My parents think he's being disrespectful to accuse me of cheating and they're sticking by my side but if I don't allow the test he's still going to know either way.
I don't know what to do but I'm pretty sure I'm about to lose him all because of a stupid mistake. I feel alone because if I tell my mother then she's going to label me as a slut and cut me off and I feel like I'm backed up against a wall.
I've been crying the entire day and I just don't know what to do to save our marriage.''
What advice to you have for her?
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